Four ways to work together, all practical and grounded in neurobiology. The deepest change happens when you can fully step away and immerse in the work — which is why our intensives and destination retreats sit at the heart of what we do.
Leave your routine behind and do the work somewhere that changes you — nature, movement, sauna, good food, and a small circle of couples going through it alongside you. We settle your nervous system first, then build new relationship skills on a body that's ready to learn them. A few days here can shift more than months at home — from a two- or three-day reset to a week abroad.
Eight weeks alongside a handful of other couples. Each week brings a skill to take home and practice, then you come back and compare notes — what worked, what didn't, and what you're picking up from the other couples in the room. Along the way you build friendships with people who get it — a small circle of support that lasts past the eight weeks.
One or two focused days that move you further than months of weekly sessions — the same work, without months more of the same fights in between. Come to me in Austin, or I fly to you. Fully present, zero distractions.
Not every couple starts with an intensive. Standalone couples therapy sessions, online workshops, and in-person courses give you the same approach in a lighter form — a first taste of the work before you go deeper, online or in person.